Анна Шиман
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Many people talk about the danger of replacing reality with illusions, but only a few are in a hurry to develop their consciousness and make their ego strong and healthy.
Today there are many misconceptions that further sharpen the conflict between altruism and egoism in the human psyche.
Instead of synthesis and balance, the individual is constantly swinging between extremes. At one moment they try too hard to please those around them, at the next, looking worn out, they cut themselves off from the world and the people around them, feeling guilt and shame for being somehow “wrong”.
To be able to synthesise, you need a developed, stable psyche, a formed consciousness and an ego with firm boundaries.
In other words, a person needs to be able to:
- set themselves apart from their surroundings
- tell themselves apart from others
- tell their own wishes apart from the wishes of those around them
- understand their emotions and feelings and tell them apart from the feelings of other people.
Only then are further personal development, an expansion of consciousness and spiritual growth possible.
For this, at our Psyvision centre for systemic personal development, we have created a structure of systemic development that gives you the opportunity to:
- gain information and theoretical and practical knowledge in the field of psychology
- absorb this knowledge and adapt it to your individual traits and life situations
- consolidate the knowledge in practice, starting with taking part in trainings and master classes and in-depth programmes and, finally, in your own social space
- learn to rely on inner meanings when making decisions,
- master the skill of analysis and synthesis, and develop the capacity for critical thinking, self-organisation and purposeful action
- be able to help yourself in difficult life situations and in relationships with other people
- adapt in society and gain a sense of yourself and of your own place in the world
- broaden your worldview and change destructive approaches to life into constructive and effective ones
- improve your relationship with yourself and with those around you
- learn to make mistakes, analysing them as experience from which to draw lessons and shape the quality and context of life you want
Starting with the basic psychology course, you gain clarity and stability, above all in the positions of the ego.
The practical assignments and the structure of the “Practical Psychology” course make it possible to form the habit of self-observation and to master the skills of introspection, self-reflection, and analysis and synthesis of the events happening inside and outside.
The ability to separate inner life from outer life lays the groundwork for psychological stability and a stronger self-awareness, and it builds self-worth and the right to self-determination and self-actualisation.
For some people, simply acknowledging that inner life exists is already a great achievement and a huge contribution to the development of their own personality.
We at our centre hold a position that puts first precisely the inner life: emotions, experiences, thoughts, personal and ancestral experience and so on. It is the inner aspects that are the cause of what happens.
Whereas outer events, situations, relationships that take shape in a certain way, repeating scripts — all of this is only the consequence of those inner processes, complexes, contents of the unconscious, past decisions and choices that covertly influence a person’s life and behaviour today.
The future is created in the past when you hand power over yourself to someone other than yourself. When you deny the value of the ego and your right to self-assertion, self-determination and the fulfilment of your own wishes! In that case a person is a hostage of fate and their life runs along a script set in advance.
Responsibility for yourself, your life and your goals, and accepting your right to be unconditionally valuable, open up the possibility of new choices that will lead to a different future!
The future is created in the present thanks to consciousness and a strong ego that is guided by the reality principle, which means it reliably assesses both outer and inner conditions for setting goals and achieving them.
Taking responsibility for your own life, purposeful action that involves the will, awareness of the primacy of the inner, a synthesis of altruism and egoism. All of this makes it possible to overcome “magical” thinking and the urge to find some “magic wand” for solving life’s tasks.
And then further work on yourself rests on inner structures that are formed and stable.
With a weak ego it is very hard to recognise your own wish to stay in the illusion of growth and development, the illusion used so generously to lure newcomers into personal growth trainings, retreats or so-called “esoteric schools”.
Do you want to tell personal development apart from the fantasies of an unhealthy ego and the clever tricks of enterprising “gurus”?
To understand yourself, put yourself first and develop with purpose, while treating yourself and your abilities with care?
Start with psychology, with growing and strengthening the ego!
This may take more time, effort and money. But in return you will gain something greater: healthy habits and the ability to live in reality, to tell it apart from illusions and to manage yourself.
We invite you to the basic “Practical Psychology” course, which I teach, and where a systemic approach, the basics of psychology, and the theory and practice of self-knowledge await you. A chance to become your own psychologist, applying what you learn to resolving life situations and tasks!
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